
Olive likes to talk about Grandpa Frank. We regularly have conversations that go something like this:
Olive: Mom, Grandpa Frank died, right?
Mom: Yes, Olive. Grandpa Frank did die.
Olive: Mom, you were sad when Grandpa Frank died, right? He was your Dad, right? Was Grandpa Frank sad when he died, Mom? Did Grandpa Frank cry?
Mom: Yes, Olive. I was sad when Grandpa Frank died.
Olive: But Mom, Grandpa Frank's spirit is with us all the time right? Like right here? (She waves her arms.) So, Mom, you don't NEED to be sad all the time anymore because Grandpa Frank's spirit is with us, right?
Mom: Yes, Olive, right here.
So, with all the acknowledgment that Grandpa Frank's spirit is all around us all the time, I shouldn't have been so surprised when I had this conversation with Olive, first thing in the morning on Grandpa Frank's birthday (June 17):
Olive: Mom, I really wish I didn't have a nose. (cocked head, sad, scrunched up face)
Mom: Why, Olive?
Olive: Because then, Mom, I wouldn't have to smell Dad's stinky toots!
No question, she has her Grandpa's sense of humor!!